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A good jack-off falls somewhere between agony and prayer. In the shower, I make the same face Mary makes in Bernini sculptures. Some people consider masturbation a second-tier sexual experience. There is a problem in the way we talk about self-pleasure.
Self-care is often seen as shameful, embarrassing, or unimportant in our social-obsessed culture. But self-pleasure is something nearly everyone does, something everyone should do, and something we could all do better. Masturbation matters because your body matters. Because pleasure is healthy. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly.
I am a sex-positive writer and blogger. The views in this slideshow do not reflect those of The Advocate and are based solely off of my own experiences. Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that address sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality.
For all others, enjoy the slideshow. And feel free to leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments. Hungry for more? Do not let masturbation be a tired, last-minute ritual in the shower or before you fall asleep. Plan time for yourself in advance. If you think jacking off is something lonely folks do on a Saturday night, reconsider.
People set aside time for the gym, meal prep, video games, yoga, and other wellness rituals. Enjoying your body should be one of them. Ever wonder why some people get into leather and rubber? Because it makes them feel sexy.
There are a million different fetishized clothing items, from jockstraps to hosiery to full-body Lycra suits. Wear something that makes you feel aroused. If you want to watch quality porn, pay for it. There are a lot of performers, directors, and behind-the-scenes folks working hard to help you get off.
Meditation for me means taking a few minutes out of my day to be quiet, breathe, listen to my thoughts, and disconnect. Some guys take masturbation-as-meditation to admirable lengths. They lay down blankets, oil up, use poppers, and spend a few hours exploring their bodies. The experience brought new appreciation of masturbation. I have always considered masturabtion something private. The faces we make when we come are funny and intense and vulnerable.
Sharing this with others is intense. It gets so intense that the withheld orgasm becomes a form of erotic torture, particularly if the submissive is willing to be edged for many hours usually with other forms of play like cock and ball torture, nipple play, and other delights. When I was writing this slideshow, I dropped questions into my Facebook newsfeed. How do you like to masturbate? How often? What lube do you like? It seems most uncut guys do not use lube, since being uncircumcised eliminates the need for lube. According to my Facebook friends, most circumcised guys use spit or silicone lube, and one adorable cub from Chicago uses Albolene, a moisturizer that has been a jacking favorite for generations.
Browse my extensive list of different lubes here. Straight and queer men everywhere are discovering the wonders of prostate stimulation. In fact, Lelo luxury adult toymaker has made male prostate massagers a prominent part of its global market. Prostate massagers are short anal toys shaped in such a way that they rub or press on your prostate typically a small bulbed head. The prostate is that come-inducing walnut located two or three inches inside your ass. Stimulating this spot produces the hardest, most intense orgasms imaginable. There may be some health benefits to using these toys, since many sources, including Livestrong and Natural News , report that p spot stimulation helps lower your risk of prostate cancer.
Most guys like playing with their balls when they masturbate, but have you tried ball stretching? Ball stretching is a fetish practice of gradually stretching your testicles to make them hang lower from your body. Most guys start ball stretching with stretchy, jelly ball stretchers. These are essentially smaller versions of stretchy, jelly cock rings. From there, they work up to soft silicone ball stretchers, which are typically a bit more rigid. After ample practice, many guys work up to metal ones. Keep in mind that these are rings you wear around your scrotal sac to make your testicles hang lower.
Legions of ball stretchers swear that the practice makes your orgasms ficantly harder and more intense. Guys who play with their balls grab them, squeeze them when they jack off will probably concur. Pictured: Fort Troff Magno Ballstretcher. Adult content. Sounding is the act of inserting a smooth, slightly curved soft or rigid rod into your urethra.
Sounding must be done slowly, carefully, and preferably with the guidance of someone who has done it before. Sounding is essentially the act of plugging and stretching your urethra, particularly near the head of your dick. While it may sound cringeworthy and painful, many kinky men the world over love sounding and swear it delivers extremely hot solo sessions. Check out Mr. I love pushing ass limits and playing with toys. Once you can relax and train your hole with practice, you may discover that stretching the anal sphincter your hole feels really, really good. The only way to practice this is with toys butt plugs in particular.
To go through all the wonderful sex toys out there would take another slideshow. Check out my top picks of sex toys every gay man should try. I love jerking off on airplanes, outdoors, and in the showers at the gym. Nontraditional masturbation locations amp up the intensity. This is molestation and can land you in jail. Your ass may not be adequately prepped.
He may be having some emotional holdovers from his last relationship. Make it a goal for the next month to do something different every time. Try a new lube or a new location or a new porn. This is how you will discover things you never knew you liked. Masturbation is an exercise in imagination. Start with a scenario and focus on it intensely.
If you lose focus, steer your mind back. The last time I watched porn, I was directing it. The stone walls and dark shadows are broken up with spare red lights hanging from the ceiling. I guide myself to this place.
I think of the texture of the cold stone and the grease and oil on it. I picture the grime on the rubber tre on the steps, the layer of dust coating the light bulbs, the wet and throaty sounds of bodies slapping against each other in the little rooms on both sides of the dark hallway. The air is hot and smells of poppers and sweat. All Rights Reserved.
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